Once you have made the decision to begin an enlargement program. You may face the tough challenge of telling your other half.
There is always the risk that she will not understand what you are doing, or the reasons you have for the decision. The question is, should you try to tell her, or is it a better option to keep this one on the quiet.
To some extent, it would depend on the type of person that you are. If you are married or engaged, the likelihood is that you are not a solitary person by nature. If this is the case, it’s only fair that you share your plans with her.
If you want, you can use this as a test of her open-mindedness and commitment to you. You should, however be careful when you are discussing this. You should try to aim the conversation so that she can accept your decision, and respect your choice.
If you are successful in telling her about your penis enlargement plans, the benefits are huge. There would be no more sneaking about, waiting for her to leave before you begin your enlargement routine, or put your penis stretcher on.
No more need to find excuses for staying in the bathroom for over 15 minutes. It could mean the end of all the lying, and skulking around.
On the other hand, talking about penis enlargement could be very detrimental to your relationship if you have a difficult partner. If she is too embarrassed about it, or can’t accept your choice, you could be in for trouble.
Some people cannot accept this, and cannot understand that you are doing this for your own development. You will need to be well prepared before you get into this conversation, and have plans to counter the most likely objections.
You need to make sure that you are decided, and committed to your enlargement program before you try to convince her that this is the right decision. You need to make sure that you are well informed, and that you can well argue your case should it be necessary.
One direction that might be helpful to take is the proliferation of body modification. If women can have breast enlargements and nip/ tucks, then why can’t men enhance their penis?
Make sure that she understands you aren’t going to force this into her face, and that you aren’t going to put her into any difficult situations. Try to address her fears and objections, make sure to tell her that you understand how she is feeling, and take her objections seriously and counter them.
You may need to help her to understand the reasons that you are doing this, and that you have thought this through carefully. If you have an understanding partner, she will probably be OK with your decision.
You never know, she might be very supportive, and offer her help and advice, it is often good to get a second opinion on things.
Remember, you do not HAVE to tell your partner. The decision is yours to make, and if you think that there is no way that she will accept it, or you would rather keep it as a surprise, then go ahead. If you are in a serious relationship though, I would suggest that you are open and honest with her.
Give her the chance to support and help you through your enlargement program, you never know, she might be the motivation that you need to keep going.